Go to porcfest. I've discovered different beliefs and titles that I never heard outside of the FSP, and I've only been interacting online for the last few years. With how powerful the communities are out there, it might just be the best human rights & autonomy environment in the world. Porcfest is already the largest anarchist festival in the world.
I don't really care about the labels or language that much because politics has destroyed it so much it's a useless tool. A dulled knife so to speak. I can see a lot of diversity in ideas and preferences among NH-FSP communities that is fundamental to its nature. Outliers and rebels uniting, really. I've met many people that at this point give no fucks about the language and are tired of debating. And I know that I would get along with you. I've done many an anarchist, peaceful and successful collaboration with the biggest bullshitter statists, who in their actions are totally anarchist- because they don't practice what they preach, and that actually works for the betterment of all of us.
You'll never know unless you try it. Post some of your goals for the community & self here, see if some others have similar interests. One of my longterm future curiosities involves building an earthship off-grid community, to function so completely outside of government. You can call that socialistic? Because it's community-oriented? Even if I wouldn't say so. Just don't draw hard lines, there's nuance in human interaction.