They just seem to be absorbed with these Internet debates, while the doers in NH largely have much more... reasonable views.
As opposed to you, who lives where, precisely?
As opposed to non-doers, including, it appears, you. I'm a doer in NY. 
Doing what?
Becoming less libertarian? Arguing against property rights at every turn? Arguing that it's okay to aggress against individuals if you "need" to?
"Do" much more, and you'll be a Republican.
Other than writing up an idea that numerous individuals had had before, and getting folks interested in it, what have you actually "done?" Believe me, I'm glad that the FSP exists, but all it actually did was speed up the inevitable. Folks are moving to NH for liberty, without ever hearing of the FSP. They've been doing it for years. They'll be doing it for years to come.
Personally, aside from actually living liberty here in NH and helping out with such things, I've used writing on various forums as a tool to convert several dozen individuals to the cause of liberty, including some who started out as just about as pro-government as you can get. I've helped at least a few dozen more already-liberty-minded individuals to further solidify their beliefs (favorite recent quote was "I never knew I was an anti-Federalist!"), a good number of whom have moved here, and several more of whom are planning moves in the next few years. If I stopped right now, and only the people who are currently here, or
seriously talking about moving here actually moved, I think the total comes to about three dozen individuals.
So, other than this anti-property-rights book you keep harping about (hardly a pro-liberty bit of work), what are you actually "doing?"
Joe