Though our financial situation is a major hinderance (we're below poverty level and behind on all of our bills, strongly considering bankruptcy), my husband has finally commited that regardless of everything, we will be living in New Hampshire by no later than July 1 of next year. That gives us some time to try to clean up our financial mess, some time to try to get some money saved, some time to make the connections we'll need to survive. But the "regardless" portion of it means that there is finally a light at the end of the tunnel.
Depending on our situation at that point, we may get a camping trailer and be looking for space to connect it (free or virtually so) and bathroom facilities (my husband's a touch claustrophobic and camping trailer restrooms are difficult for him). I have a portable job, but he'll be looking for work as we get closer to that date.
I just wanted to share my happy news, that we've finally got a "drop dead" date, and we WILL be moving to New Hampshire!