It appears I'm damned no matter what I say or do.

On the one hand, I have received delightfully`nasty email, full of personal insults the like of which I have never slung publicly *or* privately to anyone in the FSP, in response to my post. On the other hand, as soon as I posted my public apology to Jason and Amanda for any perceived personal attack, I was promptly accused of "backing off completely" from my original post. I really wasn't kidding about not even having had time to read this thread yet. Believe it or not, I have a job, and had laundry to do. And made some phone calls. And responded to the nasty email with far more courtesy than it deserved.
With the exception of my previously stated regret about jumping to conclusions about Jason and Amanda's personal future plans, and coming across as more hostile and aggressive towards them than I intended or feel, I stand by everything I said in my post. It's the truth. After various discussions, I suspect that what little hope I had that it might make a positive difference was unduly optimistic. But I still feel it was the right thing to do, making the attempt.
